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"Crimes
of Honour" Women's tragedy under Islam & Tribal Customs |
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Every year, in countries in
the Arab world, Turkey, Iran and some south and central Asian countries,
many hundreds of women who do not accept the tribal and Islamic
traditions; refuse forced marriages; marry according to their will; or
live independently, are murdered by their family members, to save the
'honour' of the family. The practice is widespread in countries under the
influence of Islam, and is known as honour killing. Women, who have
brought 'shame' to family's 'honour', are sentenced to death by family
courts and the sentence is usually carried out by male members of the
family. Under special laws, the killers are given light sentences,
sometimes with little or no jail time at all. The killers mainly defend
their act of murder by referring to the Koran. They say that they are
merely following the directives set down in their Islamic beliefs. The tragedy of women living
under Islam and tribal customs is documented in news, reports, articles
and documentary films in recent years. "Crimes of Honour", is a
recent documentary which was broadcast on Cinemax in honour of the
International Women's Day. This documentary exposes some of the hideous
truth of honour killings in Jordan. In "Crime of
Honour", the narrator walks viewers through the tragic lives of three
Jordanian women, brutally murdered by their own family members. It also
includes interviews with three women activists who try to enlighten the
society about honour killings and protect women's rights. These women are
Rania Husseini, Asma Kheder and Nadera Shalhoub - Kevorkian who are
campaigning by writing, helping and protecting women in different ways. One of the most tragic
stories is that of a 23 year old Rania Arafat, whose plight was broadcast
live on national TV in Jordan. Rania was promised to her cousin as a very
young child. Rania repeatedly told that she doesn't love him and she is in
love with someone else. She pled with her family to allow her to marry
him, instead. She ran away twice, including two weeks before her forced
marriage. She wrote to her mother and pled for forgiveness and
understanding. Her parents promised that she would not be harmed and she
could return home. On August
19, 1997, Rania returned home. The same night, her younger brother, Rami,
shot her five times in the head and chest, killing her immediately. Her
youngest brother was chosen to commit the murder not only to allow his
defense to find protection under the laws protecting so- called honour
crimes, but also because he was a juvenile. Rami served six months in jail
for his crime. This documentary is heart-
wrenching. It includes video clips of scenes of stoning of two victims in
Tehran, Iran by the Islamic Republic, the Islamic State of Iran. The two
people, presumably a young woman and her lover, huddle in the middle of a
street covered only in a white sheet and stoned until death. Life of Amal, another Arab
woman and victim of honour killing is also documented in this film. Amal
was run away because she insisted on her independence. Her family said
that they were ashamed because of that and the gossip of neighbors. One
night, when she returned home and went sleep, her brother accompanied by
Amal's father, strangled her. He said: "I strangled her. She didn't
fight back. I recited the "Holly Koran" as she was dying… it
took a few minutes and she was dead." Cases of rape is also
described where women are punished even when they are the victims of rape,
not only by strangers, but also by their own fathers and brothers. In the
case documented in this film, the family believed that Kefaya, their
daughter, the victim, who was raped by her own brother, deserved to die,
because of the intense humiliation they experienced as a result of
neighbors' gossip. "Crimes of
Honour" walks viewers to the deeper layers of the tragedy of women's
lives. It goes to the darkness of the minds of killers, and to the society
that condones this cruelty against women. It is powerful and emotional and
exposes some of the realities of women's tragedy in Jordan. However,
despite the killers' outright reference to Islam and the Koran, it denies
that this inhumane practice has anything to do with religions and Islam.
While the Koran is full of guidelines on how to control women's sexuality,
and Islamic Law; Sharia, rules harsh punishments including lashing and
stoning to death for women's voluntary sexual activities, this denial is
nothing but an apology for Islamic misogynism. In Jordan, the "plea
of honour" is recognized as a legitimate defense. After failed
efforts, and active campaigns launched against honour killings by women
rights activists and progressive forces; as a result of a legislative
amendment to Article 340 of the Penal Code, perpetrators of honour crimes
are not exempt from the death penalty, anymore. Although, judges are still
allowed to commute the sentences of the convicted. Article 97 and 98,
which reduce the sentence of crimes committed in a fit of fury and are
frequently referenced in honour crimes cases, were unaffected by the
amendments. Death penalty is not the
solution to honour killings, and it doesn't stop women killings and
practicing misogyny. The only effective strategy to abolish this rotten
anti - woman practice is to safeguard and advance women's rights and
status; by fighting against Islamic, patriarchal and tribal traditions; by
separating religion from the state; and by forming secular and egalitarian
governments in the region. |
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